Coryn, Lily, Karen and Eva - hello.
As I mentioned, I've taken a few days out on this one. Sharing with you what those few days out have done for me.
Firstly, it is apparent that I was focusing on beliefs ... when what I feel the lesson to be is shifting vibration. We've done that a little up to this point - but here, I think is where the rubber hits the road, so to speak. The beliefs - in this lesson to me- are tangential to what's really going on...
Sooooo caught up in the beliefs ... loyal to these beliefs as a cause of an overwhelming aversion to sunk costs Sooooooooooo unwilling to consider the costs of not moving on .... It dawned on me: what if I were to focus on what it is I have to gain by cutting my losses now (losses achieved through an insistence on buying into what my parents told me, what my husband told me, what the world tells me) and instead, what if I were to focus on the opportunity here for happiness and growth.
poof! An immediate shift. The insistence on things having to 'be this way' simply drops....
.... Freedom! Expansiveness! Joy! and such (dare I say?) BLISS!
My suggestion: Feel free to cut your losses.